Overcoming conservative binds?

Hmm, i had the same problem on that one. I would do a lot of praying for sure and i think if she had a talk with a mature christian women that would tremendously help. I didnt know anyone i could talk to and thought everything was dirty or unchristlike. If she would get the thumbs up from a mature christian i think she would say " well shes a good christian and does these things" and then she will feel free to do things that seem bad. Besides whats that one verse that says is honorable and undefiled in the marriage bed. Thats a good one, because it says "its alright, enjoy" And remember that between a husband and wife is sacred and holy like Christ and the church. It is like a shadow of his love for us i believe. The climax is like the joy we recieve from having a loving relationship with our Lord. I hope she understands and is enlightened unlike me who only relized this decades later and made my husband frustrated.