A question on "hypocracy" of people on this site?

yesterday i posted up a question on a choice of 2 dresses i was wearing to a wedding, near everybody said they wer both lovely and especially the first one, that evening i agreed the first is most appropriate as there was some white in the 2nd one. so i posted another question asking in the wedding section what the thought of my choice and everybody 12 answers said ewww or no way or hideous things along them lines bar one person. who are you to believe or are they just haters??